"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is she interested?

Drake22

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I really suck at gauging interest levels. There's this girl in my psych class. She is pretty cute (I'd say HB8). Me and her hung out after class once and had some lunch. She has a very sarcastic sense of humour, as do I, so we had a good time making jokes with each other and talking about where we came from (mostly her talking).

It wasn't anything super-suave, just kind of a good time. I don't think I used any kino or anything. We have hung out in class sometimes and talked (mostly to stave off boredom in lecture). I suggested we get together and play NES sometime (I have an NES and she is into that), and it sounded like she agreed. I stopped sitting in the same part of class after a while and she sent me this email:

"I haven't seen you in class this week, either i'm blind or your hiding from me. Either way I haven't said hi...so Hi.

Randomness"

to which I replied

"Nah, I have just been avoiding you like the plague. Sorry, babe, I just can't stand the sight of you....... ;p

Not Quite So Randomness"

and she replied

"totally harsh! fine then...i guess i'll be cool and go back to studying psych"

and I replied (last reply):

"Ah cmon, you know I love ya ;) Have fun studying, im going to have fun sleeping. Later"

That was last night. We have a midterm tomorrow, so I called her up (left a message) and asked her if she wanted to study and play NES. She called back and I didn't answer (I am busy with other homework/distracting myself with forums) and then sent me this online:

"so i called you back slutface...i am enjoying my nintendo all alone (well i would be if i had one)"

Now, I am not sweating over this girl or anything, but is that my clue to call her? Do you think I would have less of a chance or more of a chance if I just didn't say anything to her tonight, and if asked tomorrow simply explained that my homework took longer than expected? Thanks.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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joekerr31

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this is beyond immature.

how old are you 12? psych class suggests university.

grow up and find a woman who has grown up as well.

J
 

Drake22

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Should I not gauge interest levels? Is that a bad thing to do? Isn't it in the DJ Bible that I should gauge her interest level before my own? I am simply trying to get advice so that I can better gauge interest levels in women. What suggests my immaturity in my post? I am inexperienced, true (only slept with 3 women), but in order for me to better learn how to gauge interest levels, how else am I to do it, but peer into my experiences with women and gain advice from those more experienced than I (you guys)?
 

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If she likes you, then it doesn't matter if you call her tonight as oppose to tomorrow, she's going to do something with you regardless. And while your at it, refer to the dj bibile in case you have not.
 

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Gauge her interest? I'd say she's interested yes. She wanted you over there playing the Nintendo thing or , NES, or whatever it is. Didn't she?? She called you sl^tface. She's into raunchy humour with you. You definitely would have been getting some serious make-out action at the very least if you had gone over there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Freeman

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Originally posted by DinoCassanova
Gauge her interest? I'd say she's interested yes. She wanted you over there playing the Nintendo thing or , NES, or whatever it is. Didn't she?? She called you sl^tface. She's into raunchy humour with you. You definitely would have been getting some serious make-out action at the very least if you had gone over there.

Agreed-I say stop fuc*ing around and get with this chick!


"Turn Fear Into Curiosity"
 

Carioca123

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There's no doubt she's interested. Ive noticed in alot cases when a girl is interested she will respond with a ****y/funny comment herself. I love women who do this, shows confidence and zest for life.

"so i called you back slutface...i am enjoying my nintendo all alone (well i would be if i had one)"

If a girl somethin like that don't even consider her not bein interested she's deffo lovin your game.
 
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