"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is she interested?

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I've had Chronic Fatigue Syndrome for 2 and a half years (I'm 17) and I been back at school for about 6 weeks. Anyway there was this girl at school I was interested in before I came down with this but I never could approach her. When I came back to school she was about 10 times hotter than I remember. I've said Hi to her a couple of times and she has just smiled at me without saying anything. A few days ago I was just hanging with some friends when she walks across directly opposite from where I am when out of the blue I notice she was looking directly at me. I held her gaze for about 4 or 5 secconds before she gave me this huge smile so I smiled back. Anyway for the last couple of days she's been acting very erratic around me asking for me to explain why I act the way I do around people and why I don't do certain things with people (ie drinking). This has only happened since I smiled at her. Could this mean she's interested in me?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why.. yes... yes it does!
 
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Sounds like she is interested, but do not over analyse, do what feels natural and dont worry whatever happens.
 
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Assume she is interested and act accordingly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like you are trying to brag... but, without being obvious. Mad props to you buddy, good luck ;)
 
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Darn you braggerts!! ;) thats ok though man, its fine to have a little time to shine! (I Said a little!)
 
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*Shakes magic eightball* "All signs point to yes..."

Hey... magic eightball never lies. ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanx for the advice I feel much more confident to approach her now.
 
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Having a girl look at you and smile is nothing to brag about. She isn't anythin special and definately isnt worth all the time you spend over analysing about her, just keep developing YOUR attitude and let the chips fall were they may.
 
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THANKS Sammo! My mind is off this chick and on to the bombing that happened in Madrid which is far more important!
 
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