"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is she Interested?????

Jokerlsk

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Alright, so today while i was in line for lunch I noticed this Junior (im a softmore) HB6 in front of me talking to herself. Turns out she was talking to me, but i really didn't no if she was so i didnt say anything because it coulda became an awkward situation. Anyway she starts talking to me about food and lunch. When she got to the lady to purchase her lunch, her account was empty so I decided to pay for her. During lunch i saw her look at me occasionally, is this a sign of interest???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Crazy Asian

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probably.
next time you see her say something like "don't forget u still owe me a lunch missy!"..... well i guess that'd depend on if she agreed to pay u back.
 

AC/DC

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yea tell her she has to take you out. or be like give me my 5 dollars hoe
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WesCottII

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There's only one way (for sure) to determine interest. By doing something about it.

There's no amount of guys who've wankered away potential girls, by over analysing every f*ck'n interaction with said woman, and forgetting to move things on, because they don't quite know where they're at. The best thing to do, is go over, have some fun and show a statement of intent, by asking her out, or getting her number. If she backs off, or shilly-shally's then you know she's not into you, and you can move on. Anyother reaction, and you're in for the kill.

There's no regret like the regret of not acting, and pissing away chances with women.

This is why jerks get laid. They DON'T analyse. They take action, and are always on that next step.
 

Jokerlsk

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Thanks wes and Daddy, ill keep that advice in mind
 

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um, this is iffy.. you bought her lunch and she did not eat with you. This seams to be alittle weird i would personaly ask her if she wants to get lunch again on the weekend? then work from that. Eye contact is crucal make sure you look her in the eyes smile alot. Don't seem desprite and make she knows whom you are. Make sure you make a proper introduction then just take her out for lunch alone with you. This is key. Alone then post more on how that goes and we will all beable to work better with information for that prosptive.
 
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