"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is she Interested?????

Jokerlsk

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Alright, so today while i was in line for lunch I noticed this Junior (im a softmore) HB6 in front of me talking to herself. Turns out she was talking to me, but i really didn't no if she was so i didnt say anything because it coulda became an awkward situation. Anyway she starts talking to me about food and lunch. When she got to the lady to purchase her lunch, her account was empty so I decided to pay for her. During lunch i saw her look at me occasionally, is this a sign of interest???
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Crazy Asian

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probably.
next time you see her say something like "don't forget u still owe me a lunch missy!"..... well i guess that'd depend on if she agreed to pay u back.
 

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yea tell her she has to take you out. or be like give me my 5 dollars hoe
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WesCottII

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There's only one way (for sure) to determine interest. By doing something about it.

There's no amount of guys who've wankered away potential girls, by over analysing every f*ck'n interaction with said woman, and forgetting to move things on, because they don't quite know where they're at. The best thing to do, is go over, have some fun and show a statement of intent, by asking her out, or getting her number. If she backs off, or shilly-shally's then you know she's not into you, and you can move on. Anyother reaction, and you're in for the kill.

There's no regret like the regret of not acting, and pissing away chances with women.

This is why jerks get laid. They DON'T analyse. They take action, and are always on that next step.
 

Jokerlsk

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Thanks wes and Daddy, ill keep that advice in mind
 

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um, this is iffy.. you bought her lunch and she did not eat with you. This seams to be alittle weird i would personaly ask her if she wants to get lunch again on the weekend? then work from that. Eye contact is crucal make sure you look her in the eyes smile alot. Don't seem desprite and make she knows whom you are. Make sure you make a proper introduction then just take her out for lunch alone with you. This is key. Alone then post more on how that goes and we will all beable to work better with information for that prosptive.
 
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