"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is she Interested? Read her Body Language (Working example!)

guru1000

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Thank you. Luckily she and I have a generic enough look that nobody would recognize us. Any time you want to meet for a coffee or drink please let me know! I just joined the top 10 most liked SS members (where you are ahead of me).
There you go. Now you're in the top 10 likes. ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Note: guru1000 and I are in a virtual tie for the #10 spot but I have twice as many posts so he wins hands-down.
 

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Thank you. Luckily she and I have a generic enough look that nobody would recognize us. Any time you want to meet for a coffee or drink please let me know! I just joined the top 10 most liked SS members (where you are ahead of me).
Hey I'm in Michigan, let's link up. And yeah I don't even follow those likes lol. It's not like we're getting paid for them and if you p.iss a Moderator off in PM, they will ban your a.ss even if you have 5,000 likes!
 

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(Not knowing we had already met) I walked up to her when she was on stage and said "I've seen you before but I don't know your name" (she told me her stage name) and I asked her birthday. She told me and I said "You were born on a Thursday" and she said (in a surprisingly deep voice) 'Fascinating'. That was when I knew she was a Trekkie. Note Tricorder in photo.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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