"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is she Interested? Read her Body Language (Working example!)

guru1000

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Thank you. Luckily she and I have a generic enough look that nobody would recognize us. Any time you want to meet for a coffee or drink please let me know! I just joined the top 10 most liked SS members (where you are ahead of me).
There you go. Now you're in the top 10 likes. ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Note: guru1000 and I are in a virtual tie for the #10 spot but I have twice as many posts so he wins hands-down.
 

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Thank you. Luckily she and I have a generic enough look that nobody would recognize us. Any time you want to meet for a coffee or drink please let me know! I just joined the top 10 most liked SS members (where you are ahead of me).
Hey I'm in Michigan, let's link up. And yeah I don't even follow those likes lol. It's not like we're getting paid for them and if you p.iss a Moderator off in PM, they will ban your a.ss even if you have 5,000 likes!
 

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(Not knowing we had already met) I walked up to her when she was on stage and said "I've seen you before but I don't know your name" (she told me her stage name) and I asked her birthday. She told me and I said "You were born on a Thursday" and she said (in a surprisingly deep voice) 'Fascinating'. That was when I knew she was a Trekkie. Note Tricorder in photo.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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