Is she interested or not? Trying to see where I stand with my co worker

[women haze]

Okay fellas I will Summarize this to make it eaiser on everyone. Okay well I have been talking with my co worker recently and I am really starting to become attracted to her. I mean we both are somewhat computer geeks. I love to dance and she shares that love as well, We have been talking with each other everyday and seemingly I can get her to come out with me right?

Well wrong....Is she talking to me because she is interested, or does she feel that if she doesn't talk to me things will get awkward because I'm sure she knows that I have an interest. I invited her to come out with me this Sat to go out salsa dancing...
I have her number, told her to add me to facebook and she hasn't done it yet after saying she would.

She sounded interested but she said that she had a prior engagement during the day a baby shower. Is that an opening to flake out on me???

She has not made a mention of this event this week and I am planning on reminding her Friday to see if she is still interested. She smiles at me we talk.....not long though.

I don't know I want to escalate this and have her give me a chance but I don't know how to push this further????

 

[drak_ool]

I just want to point out the red flag to you: GIRL AT MY WORK. How often a day do you run into this girl? do you both work in an open space/cubicle type setup? because if things don't work out, or get ugly, you will have to deal with this girl everyday.

don't drop the pen in the company ink, that s all i m gonna say

 

[AAAgent]

you haven't given enough information as to really say if she's interested or not. Women play alot of games so its hard to tell if she's blowing u off or not. remember the dating process is meant for two people to get to know each other so if you already know so much about her and her likewise with you....what exactly is the point of dating you??? update with more info.

 

[women haze]

you haven't given enough information as to really say if she's interested or not. Women play alot of games so its hard to tell if she's blowing u off or not. remember the dating process is meant for two people to get to know each other so if you already know so much about her and her likewise with you....what exactly is the point of dating you??? update with more info.

How am I supposed to find that out is the question? She has roaming eyes and other guys are talking to her. I'm trying to put myself in the forefont...

I mean yes we are talking everyday, but she is not telling me everything. She is being very candid. Nothing personal more or less.

 

[women haze]

What do you guys need to know?...I did not call her but I have been texting her. She says that she had not recieved any of my text messages but she is ALWAYS checking her phone....

what's up with that?

 

[AAAgent]

judging from your responses it doesn't look good for u buddy.

 

[women haze]

judging from your responses it doesn't look good for u buddy.

geee thanks buddy......:nervous:

 

[starplayer]

What happened to "don't sh!t where you eat". You don't wanna end up with a oneitis for this girl do you?

She doesn't sound like a woman with high interest tbh. but at the same time she hasn't outright rejected you. I think what she does with you this weekend will tell you all you need to know about where you stand with her.

Who usually initiates the convos between you and her?

 

[women haze]

Me or her depends on the day..

 

[Energizer]

I don't mix work and pleasure, though I do regret missing out on a HB10 I didnt get with last year because of my judgement. I think you should go for it mate, don't make the same mistake I did. I sure as hell won't be making that mistake again.

 

[women haze]

Well thanks guys I will take your advice and give it a shot. Althought in my gut I feel like she's not as interested as I had thought.

 

[Hidden-Hand]

Is she interested or not? Trying to see where I stand with my co worker

Did you touch her?? What was her reaction to it, did she like it and keep letting you touch her/touch you back?

If you answered No to the first question, touch her you spineless AFC pig (No offense)
If you answered No to the second question then, NO she does not like you and probably never will (Unless you save her life or something close to that)
If you answered yes to both questions then, YES! SHE DOES LIKE YOU. Use your DJ magic on her and she is yours!

It is as simple as this, it is not complicated at all. Do not add complexity to a situation where it need not apply.

 

[game.r]

God, this is pathetic!