"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is She Interested in me....and is there a chance?

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Well, Let me say, im 16, gr 11 (junior)....anyway, i go to a small school with 600 kids gr 3-12, and there area couple of hot girls....

HB9 (makeup makes her hot) was walking in hall after badminton practice and i said "How was badminton practice". she smiled and said 2 lines but kept walking to change room (im pretty sure she had to go urgently...either way :mad: ) - on Tuesday

Then Wed was Day Off, and today i was waiting in line for lunch, she smiled again and we talked for 2 min (i fuked up bad cause her friend came two minutes later and i didnt even introduce myself to her friend), then i started talking to my friend ect

Now i know this seems like the stupidest thread ever (LOL) but the thing is, what should i do:

- She STILL HASNT GIVEN ME HER NAME :mad:
- First time i talked, she didnt even stopped, but has given other signs....smiling? - so does this mean she is interested in meeting NEW PEOPLE or interested in me....i am good looking, minority, 6'1, good build and nice guy, but i sorta need to break the ice every time we talk, i wanna start out with an interesting line, like instead of "Hows your day going" when i see her say "why are u stalking me" ect...

This is vital, because its gonna help me change my approach to other girls in her grade, so shell get jealous, i know i need to be ****y and funny, but im 95% sure she isnt interested, is it even worth it?

Either way, im pretty sure she is DJing me !!!!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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judging by the title of this thread, without even reading your post im assuming the answer to both of these questions is no.

you MIGHT somehow get a good answer by posting this thread. but i doubt it would be bible worthy. gohere . youre only hurting yourself if you dont.

by the way, im 16 in 11th grade too. my school has 120 people in it. it can be hard for us :D

by the way, if youre reading this and getting pissed off, im letting you know that for 19 out of every 20 questions on here, a link to the bible is the best answer.
 

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Ye i know

I get pissed when i see such easy answers that can be answered by the Bible, but ive read it, and i was 99% sure she was uninterested, but i was hoping for that 1% since no one else seemed to be talking to her.......
 

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Why are you even asking this question??

:rolleyes:

There's nothing "vital" about any of this crap. She could kick you in the nuts and laugh at you when you try to talk to her...you're still breathing. What's "vital"? Your ego? Get over yourself.

It doesn't change anything. If you like her, holler at her. If she seems receptive, ask her out. Then, AFTER the first date, ask yourself, "does she like me?" How can she like or not like you? You don't even KNOW her. You don't even know her NAME.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by squirrels
Why are you even asking this question??

:rolleyes:

There's nothing "vital" about any of this crap. She could kick you in the nuts and laugh at you when you try to talk to her...you're still breathing. What's "vital"? Your ego? Get over yourself.

It doesn't change anything. If you like her, holler at her. If she seems receptive, ask her out. Then, AFTER the first date, ask yourself, "does she like me?" How can she like or not like you? You don't even KNOW her. You don't even know her NAME.
ur right, no leave this damn thread alone........
 
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