"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Is She Interested in me....and is there a chance?

V

Vigilante7

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2003
Messages
247
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Well, Let me say, im 16, gr 11 (junior)....anyway, i go to a small school with 600 kids gr 3-12, and there area couple of hot girls....

HB9 (makeup makes her hot) was walking in hall after badminton practice and i said "How was badminton practice". she smiled and said 2 lines but kept walking to change room (im pretty sure she had to go urgently...either way :mad: ) - on Tuesday

Then Wed was Day Off, and today i was waiting in line for lunch, she smiled again and we talked for 2 min (i fuked up bad cause her friend came two minutes later and i didnt even introduce myself to her friend), then i started talking to my friend ect

Now i know this seems like the stupidest thread ever (LOL) but the thing is, what should i do:

- She STILL HASNT GIVEN ME HER NAME :mad:
- First time i talked, she didnt even stopped, but has given other signs....smiling? - so does this mean she is interested in meeting NEW PEOPLE or interested in me....i am good looking, minority, 6'1, good build and nice guy, but i sorta need to break the ice every time we talk, i wanna start out with an interesting line, like instead of "Hows your day going" when i see her say "why are u stalking me" ect...

This is vital, because its gonna help me change my approach to other girls in her grade, so shell get jealous, i know i need to be ****y and funny, but im 95% sure she isnt interested, is it even worth it?

Either way, im pretty sure she is DJing me !!!!:mad: :mad:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

J

J-Man

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2003
Messages
221
Reaction score
0
judging by the title of this thread, without even reading your post im assuming the answer to both of these questions is no.

you MIGHT somehow get a good answer by posting this thread. but i doubt it would be bible worthy. gohere . youre only hurting yourself if you dont.

by the way, im 16 in 11th grade too. my school has 120 people in it. it can be hard for us :D

by the way, if youre reading this and getting pissed off, im letting you know that for 19 out of every 20 questions on here, a link to the bible is the best answer.
 
V

Vigilante7

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2003
Messages
247
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Ye i know

I get pissed when i see such easy answers that can be answered by the Bible, but ive read it, and i was 99% sure she was uninterested, but i was hoping for that 1% since no one else seemed to be talking to her.......
 
S

squirrels

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2003
Messages
6,620
Reaction score
186
Age
47
Location
A universe...where heartbreak and sadness have bee
Why are you even asking this question??

:rolleyes:

There's nothing "vital" about any of this crap. She could kick you in the nuts and laugh at you when you try to talk to her...you're still breathing. What's "vital"? Your ego? Get over yourself.

It doesn't change anything. If you like her, holler at her. If she seems receptive, ask her out. Then, AFTER the first date, ask yourself, "does she like me?" How can she like or not like you? You don't even KNOW her. You don't even know her NAME.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

V

Vigilante7

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2003
Messages
247
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Originally posted by squirrels
Why are you even asking this question??

:rolleyes:

There's nothing "vital" about any of this crap. She could kick you in the nuts and laugh at you when you try to talk to her...you're still breathing. What's "vital"? Your ego? Get over yourself.

It doesn't change anything. If you like her, holler at her. If she seems receptive, ask her out. Then, AFTER the first date, ask yourself, "does she like me?" How can she like or not like you? You don't even KNOW her. You don't even know her NAME.
Click to expand...
ur right, no leave this damn thread alone........
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top