"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is she in or not?

Colopez

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I've been on a couple of dates with a girl. We've had a great time, kissed, and said we wanted to keep seeing each other.
Suddenly she's acting weird when I start to set up dates. It all goes down like this: I'll set up a date...the next day she says something came up...and reschedules for the same week. We'll meet, have a good time, but then it happens again. It didn't bother me at first, but now it's a bit annoying. I feel she's simply not that interested at times, but then she also does show interest. Any thoughts?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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benogan

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spin plates. She'll text you. just stay distant for a while. Be busy. When she keeps asking to get together it's time.
 

TheGambino

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Exactley that, you have to care less about this relationship then her.

So spin plates, find other girls and go on more dates. Youre interest level will drop coz of other women in youre life. You punish this behaviour by giving her less attention. Don't act weird, butthurt, get mad or anything just text her less, take more time to respond and don't ask to hang out. Be the fun outgoing nice guy (or whatever your style is) towards her but just let her take iniative and keep days and days of no contact if she doesnt text you.

Eventually her hamster will spin nutzz and she will ask you out.

So go after other girls and not for her but for yourself and the game!

goodfreakingluckbro
 

TheGambino

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Ye GotED is prolly right coz she suddenly gives you mixed signals and reschedules, so she has other things in her life that are more important then seeing you, biggest bet is another guy in the picture.

No problem at all buddy: Act more distant like I described above, when you guys meet up, F*ck her brainsout, don't spend a dime on her, have fun and dropp her off.

Don't catch feelings or get invested emotionally and spin plates.

You see her on reg base, she shows up for dates, just get laid win - win
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm late, but mixed signals are negative signals. It means low to no interest. Drop her, she already did it to you for a better man.

Case closed. Exit my courtroom.
 
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