Is she in or not?

[Colopez]

I've been on a couple of dates with a girl. We've had a great time, kissed, and said we wanted to keep seeing each other.
Suddenly she's acting weird when I start to set up dates. It all goes down like this: I'll set up a date...the next day she says something came up...and reschedules for the same week. We'll meet, have a good time, but then it happens again. It didn't bother me at first, but now it's a bit annoying. I feel she's simply not that interested at times, but then she also does show interest. Any thoughts?

 

[benogan]

spin plates. She'll text you. just stay distant for a while. Be busy. When she keeps asking to get together it's time.

 

[TheGambino]

Exactley that, you have to care less about this relationship then her.

So spin plates, find other girls and go on more dates. Youre interest level will drop coz of other women in youre life. You punish this behaviour by giving her less attention. Don't act weird, butthurt, get mad or anything just text her less, take more time to respond and don't ask to hang out. Be the fun outgoing nice guy (or whatever your style is) towards her but just let her take iniative and keep days and days of no contact if she doesnt text you.

Eventually her hamster will spin nutzz and she will ask you out.

So go after other girls and not for her but for yourself and the game!

goodfreakingluckbro

 

[GotED?]

She likes another guy more than you and your Princess is in another castle.

She also can't spin plates for sh!t, although she's trying to. LOL.

Exodus

 

[TheGambino]

Ye GotED is prolly right coz she suddenly gives you mixed signals and reschedules, so she has other things in her life that are more important then seeing you, biggest bet is another guy in the picture.

No problem at all buddy: Act more distant like I described above, when you guys meet up, F*ck her brainsout, don't spend a dime on her, have fun and dropp her off.

Don't catch feelings or get invested emotionally and spin plates.

You see her on reg base, she shows up for dates, just get laid win - win

 

[nismo-4]

I'm late, but mixed signals are negative signals. It means low to no interest. Drop her, she already did it to you for a better man.

Case closed. Exit my courtroom.