Ok fellas I need some help. I've been seeing this girl that's about 8 years younger than me, 24 year old to be exact. I understand that there is a measure of flakiness that goes with that age group so I know to expect that stuff. Anyway, after about 6 weeks of on again off again give and take we have a talk about what we're doing, her choice, so we decided that we'll have a somewhat exclusive deal. No shagging of anyone else. So here's the deal, today she's like I don't want to shag anyone else but I would still like to date other people.
I usually have about 2-3 girls going at the same time but I really got into this one. I've put the other two at this point on hold. To be quite honest, they're fun and all but I know there is nothing and will be nothing there ever. This other one however has sort of grabbed me and I would stop being with other girls for her. However, this other dating thing is disturbing.
I basically told her that if I am going to stop shagging other chicks then I need her to do the same. I guess the question is pretty simple, if she still wants to date other men do I next her? To be quite honest I don't think I can have a casual sex thing with her. I know she would be cool with that but I wouldn't. More importantly, giving up shagging other women is much more of a commitment on the guys part than the girls. The amount of time she would have to invest in getting another dude would be a lot less than the amount of time I would have to invest in restocking the stable so to speak.
I'm looking for all options fellas. Help a homeboy out.
I usually have about 2-3 girls going at the same time but I really got into this one. I've put the other two at this point on hold. To be quite honest, they're fun and all but I know there is nothing and will be nothing there ever. This other one however has sort of grabbed me and I would stop being with other girls for her. However, this other dating thing is disturbing.
I basically told her that if I am going to stop shagging other chicks then I need her to do the same. I guess the question is pretty simple, if she still wants to date other men do I next her? To be quite honest I don't think I can have a casual sex thing with her. I know she would be cool with that but I wouldn't. More importantly, giving up shagging other women is much more of a commitment on the guys part than the girls. The amount of time she would have to invest in getting another dude would be a lot less than the amount of time I would have to invest in restocking the stable so to speak.
I'm looking for all options fellas. Help a homeboy out.