"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is she gonna feel some type of way after this?

YT827

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I like this girl, but vow not to get oneitis with any girl ever again. So, when I'm seeing girls...I don't give them excess attention.

I had the first date with this girl last week and ended up having sex with her.

Yesterday, we had our second date. It started in the afternoon and ended around 9pm. She wanted to go home. We didn't have a bad time. Actually, we had a very nice time. I assume she's still not super comfortable and I didn't feel like trying to convince her. So, I walked to her car, kiss goodnight, and then walked home. I was actually pretty tired so I feel asleep pretty early. Wake up this morning and see that she called a few times last night.

So, I sent her a text this morning saying I fell asleep early. I know females are crazy, so will she have all kinds of ideas?

Should I call her later today, or let my text stand on its own and wait for her to contact me back?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kailex

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Late to the party but...

What did she text back? It's been 24 hours since this thread went up.

When you said the second date went on from the afternoon til 9 PM, what exactly do you mean? 12:30? 3:00?

I guess I should find out what happened first. But you seem to be having a lot of doubts about this girl already.
 

YT827

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She called me that night. Things are good. The last conversation was more sexual. She mentioned us having sex again the next time we meet.
 
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