Smartone84
Senior Don Juan
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Hey guys. Back here with an update of sorts to a plate I thought I smashed weeks ago, but here's the quick summary...
Met girl online. Spoke nonstop for a week. Endless stuff in common. Good vibes/conversation. Was truly looking forward to an online date for the first time in a long time. We meet on a Sunday afternoon, have a great 2.5 hour date where she even friends me on Facebook at the end of the date! She texts me after that she had fun. We text that night. The next day, Monday, she comes to me. Tuesday, she comes to ME. I then ask if she's free for a call and she says she's busy. No texting all night for the first time since number closing. Wednesday i text her and ask her out for dinner for the weekend. She tells me sure but a lunch "would work better". I tell her ok Sunday is fine and to let me know what time and she simply says "ok". No big texting that night again.
Friday she blows me off, stating that she DID have fun with me, and DID want to go on a second date, but that i "remind" her "a lot" of her ex, and she couldn't ignore it. Here's the interesting part.... Facebook photos (from when she was dating this guy over two years ago) show that I actually look a LOT like her ex bf. I really kind of liked this girl though. So two weeks go by and I think well, i have nothing to lose, so let me say hello and see how it goes, and see if this really is dead in the water or not. So this past Monday, I text her.
She responds with this HUGE upbeat, nice, warm text response and then asks how my life has been the last few weeks. I respond to her 15 minutes later (with a question) around 7:30pm at night this past Monday. NO RESPONSE. Again, she RESPONDS to me with a great text, and then goes silent. She also posts on facebook during this time which lead me to believe was one last FU to me to maybe let me know she wasn't texting me back. Who knows. Tuesday I delete her from my facebook and officially smash the plate in my mind.
WEDNESDAY NIGHT - 6PM - SHE RESPONDS TO MY QUESTION! NO EXPLANATION GIVEN AS TO WHY SHE WAS RESPONDING NEARLY 48 HOURS LATER!!!. I say "I thought someone may have lost their phone...". She says she's sorry but was very busy Tuesday night and then Weds she had a bad day. Yokayyyy. My ass. i text her back one more time to a question she asked and then went cold. She then texts me Thursday MORNING a few times talking about something mentioned in my last text. ALL of my texts go without a question and without any special comments. Nothing Thursday night.
Friday comes and i think to myself , ok let me send her one thing to see what happens. I send her a Happy Friday MEME text in the morning. No response until Friday night, 8:30pm, when she responds simply with three thumbs up emoji's.
So guys, what exactly is going on with this chick?
A) She's whacked
B) She's just toying with me for attention
C) In the back of her head she legitimately DOES like me as she almost kind of admitted originally during the blowoff, but is super hesitant bc of the ex-bf look alike factor
D) Other
Met girl online. Spoke nonstop for a week. Endless stuff in common. Good vibes/conversation. Was truly looking forward to an online date for the first time in a long time. We meet on a Sunday afternoon, have a great 2.5 hour date where she even friends me on Facebook at the end of the date! She texts me after that she had fun. We text that night. The next day, Monday, she comes to me. Tuesday, she comes to ME. I then ask if she's free for a call and she says she's busy. No texting all night for the first time since number closing. Wednesday i text her and ask her out for dinner for the weekend. She tells me sure but a lunch "would work better". I tell her ok Sunday is fine and to let me know what time and she simply says "ok". No big texting that night again.
Friday she blows me off, stating that she DID have fun with me, and DID want to go on a second date, but that i "remind" her "a lot" of her ex, and she couldn't ignore it. Here's the interesting part.... Facebook photos (from when she was dating this guy over two years ago) show that I actually look a LOT like her ex bf. I really kind of liked this girl though. So two weeks go by and I think well, i have nothing to lose, so let me say hello and see how it goes, and see if this really is dead in the water or not. So this past Monday, I text her.
She responds with this HUGE upbeat, nice, warm text response and then asks how my life has been the last few weeks. I respond to her 15 minutes later (with a question) around 7:30pm at night this past Monday. NO RESPONSE. Again, she RESPONDS to me with a great text, and then goes silent. She also posts on facebook during this time which lead me to believe was one last FU to me to maybe let me know she wasn't texting me back. Who knows. Tuesday I delete her from my facebook and officially smash the plate in my mind.
WEDNESDAY NIGHT - 6PM - SHE RESPONDS TO MY QUESTION! NO EXPLANATION GIVEN AS TO WHY SHE WAS RESPONDING NEARLY 48 HOURS LATER!!!. I say "I thought someone may have lost their phone...". She says she's sorry but was very busy Tuesday night and then Weds she had a bad day. Yokayyyy. My ass. i text her back one more time to a question she asked and then went cold. She then texts me Thursday MORNING a few times talking about something mentioned in my last text. ALL of my texts go without a question and without any special comments. Nothing Thursday night.
Friday comes and i think to myself , ok let me send her one thing to see what happens. I send her a Happy Friday MEME text in the morning. No response until Friday night, 8:30pm, when she responds simply with three thumbs up emoji's.
So guys, what exactly is going on with this chick?
A) She's whacked
B) She's just toying with me for attention
C) In the back of her head she legitimately DOES like me as she almost kind of admitted originally during the blowoff, but is super hesitant bc of the ex-bf look alike factor
D) Other
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