Is she flaking, cheating, or spinning?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Observer

New Member

Aug 23, 2006

Dear Bill
why do you want this girl at all?
You said it yourself she she has -90 points on your scale. Would you really like to win that girl and than to stay with her?! I don't think so, neither do you. So why are you trying so much... Its your huge ego that make you run to win. The only problem is that the price is so poor. So you are not trying to win her, but more to satisfy your ego by winning her. In this case winning is loosing, but on the other hand loosing her is winning. So if you wonna win in this situation, just win your ego and move away from her. Do not think, do not even post about her... NEXT

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.