"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dear Bill
why do you want this girl at all?
You said it yourself she she has -90 points on your scale. Would you really like to win that girl and than to stay with her?! I don't think so, neither do you. So why are you trying so much... Its your huge ego that make you run to win. The only problem is that the price is so poor. So you are not trying to win her, but more to satisfy your ego by winning her. In this case winning is loosing, but on the other hand loosing her is winning. So if you wonna win in this situation, just win your ego and move away from her. Do not think, do not even post about her... NEXT
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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