"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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is she crawling back?

ducaro

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hi guys

sometime ago i found out my gf (fiancee actually) was sleeping around with her co-worker behind my back. she never told me (i could sense the telltale signs) and i had to find out! i vanished like a ghost the next day without she knowing. she then tried calling and crying and ****. she then seemed OK as she did not call me for a week.. then she called me for something else and she never spoke about us and seemed really cold. i never called her. now after 15 days she calls me many times and leaves me a voice message saying she misses me and wants to talk to me about something. she also emails me an tells me she misses me and loves me.

so what is she trying?? is she tryina get back?? or is this some sadistic nasty trick she is tryina pull off????
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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loco2chon

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If she did it once... She'll do it again. I'll start looking elsewhere... It's up to you though :D
 

TruthHurts

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loco is right.... listen, if she was really into you, she would have not cheated on you... point is,,, her ego hurts, and she lonely, if you were to actually give her a chance, after a while, SHE will leave you, and you will be left in agony and she will actually be able to walk away...

Conclusion... start dating other girls, FORGET HER.... Do not fall for her trix...
 
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ducaro said:
...sometime ago i found out my gf (fiancee actually) was sleeping around with her co-worker behind my back.
Hors "love" everyone and no one at the same time!!!!!
 

HUFFY2

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why does this last man standing guy alwasy say the same thing?

i mean, if you are really hanging with women, shouldn't you grow each year and learn new things? this guy has been saying the same thing for weeks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ducaro said:
....sometime ago i found out my gf (fiancee actually) was sleeping around with her co-worker behind my back. .....

she calls me many times and leaves me a voice message saying she misses me
Hors "love" everyone and no one at the same time!!!!! Say "No" to hos!!!
 
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HUFFY2 said:
why does this last man standing guy alwasy say the same thing?

i mean, if you are really hanging with women, shouldn't you grow each year and learn new things? this guy has been saying the same thing for weeks!
Haha, it's going on 4 years!! The same hor question gets the same pimp answer!!! Truth is a constant!!!::rolleyes:
 

afrojiggles

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cowards die one death so why u wana die soo many times!!
once a fool nut never twice a fool so next her and get some quality woman to share ur tender heart :trouble:
 
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