"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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is she crawling back?

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ducaro

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hi guys

sometime ago i found out my gf (fiancee actually) was sleeping around with her co-worker behind my back. she never told me (i could sense the telltale signs) and i had to find out! i vanished like a ghost the next day without she knowing. she then tried calling and crying and ****. she then seemed OK as she did not call me for a week.. then she called me for something else and she never spoke about us and seemed really cold. i never called her. now after 15 days she calls me many times and leaves me a voice message saying she misses me and wants to talk to me about something. she also emails me an tells me she misses me and loves me.

so what is she trying?? is she tryina get back?? or is this some sadistic nasty trick she is tryina pull off????
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If she did it once... She'll do it again. I'll start looking elsewhere... It's up to you though :D
 
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loco is right.... listen, if she was really into you, she would have not cheated on you... point is,,, her ego hurts, and she lonely, if you were to actually give her a chance, after a while, SHE will leave you, and you will be left in agony and she will actually be able to walk away...

Conclusion... start dating other girls, FORGET HER.... Do not fall for her trix...
 
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ducaro said:
...sometime ago i found out my gf (fiancee actually) was sleeping around with her co-worker behind my back.
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Hors "love" everyone and no one at the same time!!!!!
 
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why does this last man standing guy alwasy say the same thing?

i mean, if you are really hanging with women, shouldn't you grow each year and learn new things? this guy has been saying the same thing for weeks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ducaro said:
....sometime ago i found out my gf (fiancee actually) was sleeping around with her co-worker behind my back. .....

she calls me many times and leaves me a voice message saying she misses me
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Hors "love" everyone and no one at the same time!!!!! Say "No" to hos!!!
 
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HUFFY2 said:
why does this last man standing guy alwasy say the same thing?

i mean, if you are really hanging with women, shouldn't you grow each year and learn new things? this guy has been saying the same thing for weeks!
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Haha, it's going on 4 years!! The same hor question gets the same pimp answer!!! Truth is a constant!!!::rolleyes:
 
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cowards die one death so why u wana die soo many times!!
once a fool nut never twice a fool so next her and get some quality woman to share ur tender heart :trouble:
 
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