"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is she attracted?

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I want to know if this girl is attracted or to me or not.
She is very quiet arround me, even when with her friends.
When on the street she'll call me, say hi or something but when in school she acts like she dosn't even notice or know me, even when her friends are talking to me. I haven't made any moves on her though, and she's very pretty might to. So what do you think?Can someone explain her behavior towards me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In response to Rgeere :
1. Yes, she dose smile.
2.Yep.
 
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Originally posted by Da_Shogun
I want to know if this girl is attracted or to me or not.
She is very quiet arround me, even when with her friends.
When on the street she'll call me, say hi or something but when in school she acts like she dosn't even notice or know me, even when her friends are talking to me. I haven't made any moves on her though, and she's very pretty might to. So what do you think?Can someone explain her behavior towards me?
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Well buddy I would say that it could be one of two things:

1. She finds you attractive and she has problems with showing her feelings towards you.

OR

2. Just being friendly--no interest in you like that and just says hi too be polite.


In this sort of situation I would have to say that i would definitely pursue other girls--just to put some fire under her a$$.

What YOU SHOULD DO: If want to know if this girl wants you why don't just go up to her and ask her out on a date?

--One thing I have learned since I began to notice girls in a sexual way(which was about 5 years old) that if they like you they won't make it very hard for you to get with them...Remember that if she starts playing games with you QUIT THAT CHICK FAST!
 
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This is has been said OVER AND OVER AND OVER and applies to EVERYONE:

STOP WONDERING ABOUT WHETHER SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU OR NOT BECAUSE THAT GETS YOU ABSOLUTELY NO WHERE, SIMPLY ASSUME SHE HAS THE HOTS FOR YOU AND ACT ACCORDINGLY.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Nex
STOP WONDERING ABOUT WHETHER SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU OR NOT BECAUSE THAT GETS YOU ABSOLUTELY NO WHERE, SIMPLY ASSUME SHE HAS THE HOTS FOR YOU AND ACT ACCORDINGLY.
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