"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is she attracted?

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Da_Shogun

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I want to know if this girl is attracted or to me or not.
She is very quiet arround me, even when with her friends.
When on the street she'll call me, say hi or something but when in school she acts like she dosn't even notice or know me, even when her friends are talking to me. I haven't made any moves on her though, and she's very pretty might to. So what do you think?Can someone explain her behavior towards me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In response to Rgeere :
1. Yes, she dose smile.
2.Yep.
 

Freeman

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Originally posted by Da_Shogun
I want to know if this girl is attracted or to me or not.
She is very quiet arround me, even when with her friends.
When on the street she'll call me, say hi or something but when in school she acts like she dosn't even notice or know me, even when her friends are talking to me. I haven't made any moves on her though, and she's very pretty might to. So what do you think?Can someone explain her behavior towards me?

Well buddy I would say that it could be one of two things:

1. She finds you attractive and she has problems with showing her feelings towards you.

OR

2. Just being friendly--no interest in you like that and just says hi too be polite.


In this sort of situation I would have to say that i would definitely pursue other girls--just to put some fire under her a$$.

What YOU SHOULD DO: If want to know if this girl wants you why don't just go up to her and ask her out on a date?

--One thing I have learned since I began to notice girls in a sexual way(which was about 5 years old) that if they like you they won't make it very hard for you to get with them...Remember that if she starts playing games with you QUIT THAT CHICK FAST!
 

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This is has been said OVER AND OVER AND OVER and applies to EVERYONE:

STOP WONDERING ABOUT WHETHER SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU OR NOT BECAUSE THAT GETS YOU ABSOLUTELY NO WHERE, SIMPLY ASSUME SHE HAS THE HOTS FOR YOU AND ACT ACCORDINGLY.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Nex
STOP WONDERING ABOUT WHETHER SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU OR NOT BECAUSE THAT GETS YOU ABSOLUTELY NO WHERE, SIMPLY ASSUME SHE HAS THE HOTS FOR YOU AND ACT ACCORDINGLY.
 
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