Ok guys. I just started goin out with this girl a couple days ago. She constantly talks about me to her friends about how she has never met a guy like me and how she wants to kiss me and all this stuff. I have her phone number but havent even called her yet. She dropped by my work today just to see me and she blew me a kiss as she was walkin out just as I was helpin a customer. Then I went out to my car and there was a note on it that say "I Love you", and then her name. This is just your regular high school relationship, but we've only been goin out a couple days and I already have the feeling shes attached. I only really give her attention when we're alone. Ive never called her. Heck, Ive never even told her I like her. Could this be the reason she likes me so much? Usually girls dont seem to get attached to guys like AFC get attached to girls. Is this bad that she already seems to be attached to me, or is this a really good thing? Im still tryin to figure it out. The only thing I know is, Im not attached to her and im in control. hehehehe
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is she attached to me?
- Thread starter fezz
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yeah, I'd say she's pretty attached. Is this good or bad? Well, that's your call. Do you want an obsessed girl hanging around you all the time? Might get a little annoying after awhile.
In any case, there's not a whole lot you can do about it (except making yourself seem less attractive). You're cleary in control of the relationship, and that's what matters.
In any case, there's not a whole lot you can do about it (except making yourself seem less attractive). You're cleary in control of the relationship, and that's what matters.
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Senior Don Juan
Had a girl just like that about 1 month ago. They are okay for the first couple of weeks, then if anything comes up ... there world comes down and they flip. My chick flipped cause I did not pick up the phone the instance she called. That was attached and even the note thing, I had put on my car ... atleast a dozen times. I NEXTED her after 3 weeks.
Ya, i have a feeling its gonna end up like that if she keeps on givin me attention, but it doesnt hurt but try to see how things work. Dang, now I know why its so freakin annoying when the guy gives the girl constant attention. Why couldnt I have just seen how completely pitiful an AFC was when I was one???? oh well, times are good now.
Zero0ne
Don Juan
lol, female afc's.... someones gotta come up with a good name for that.
