"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is she actually dropping hints?

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Vikman

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Not sure how to handle this, not sure if this girl likes me or not, I've known her for some time (not friends, just someone I know at college). Sometimes when I talk to her, she sounds real excited. She's also way beautiful and I believe she can pretty much get any guy she wanted.

I was at the bar the other day for my 21st birthday. I bumped into her at the bar and then she sounded real excited/surprised when she saw me there. When we briefly talked, I noticed that her pupils dilated. Then, the following morning, I received this email from her:

happy birthday again! we're gonna go to bar this weekend, hey maybe i'll see you there! maybe before that, bye =]

Based on what you see here, does this girl really like me or am I hallucinating?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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619joe

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You havent read up on your reading.

Dilated Pupils can also appear in people in low lighting/darkness which is what Im sure is what happened.Dont judge it based from dilated pupils though you need to find more IOI's.

Either she likes you or shes being really friendly and is just naturally excited.

Basically she took the time to message you the following morning.What does that say?

She went out of her way instead of just going on with her morning JUST to message YOU.She could have done that later in the day or possibly the following day but she didnt cause she wants you to be thinking of her.
 
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good advice 619joe

vikman, she's digging you :)
stop having such little confidence in yourself, you're attracting a gorgeous girl. go with the flow
 
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Vikman said:
Sometimes when I talk to her, she sounds real excited. She's also way beautiful and I believe she can pretty much get any guy she wanted.

I was at the bar the other day for my 21st birthday. I bumped into her at the bar and then she sounded real excited/surprised when she saw me there. When we briefly talked, I noticed that her pupils dilated. Then, the following morning, I received this email from her:

happy birthday again! we're gonna go to bar this weekend, hey maybe i'll see you there! maybe before that, bye =]
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What did you answer to her email?
 
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