"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is she actually dropping hints?

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Vikman

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Not sure how to handle this, not sure if this girl likes me or not, I've known her for some time (not friends, just someone I know at college). Sometimes when I talk to her, she sounds real excited. She's also way beautiful and I believe she can pretty much get any guy she wanted.

I was at the bar the other day for my 21st birthday. I bumped into her at the bar and then she sounded real excited/surprised when she saw me there. When we briefly talked, I noticed that her pupils dilated. Then, the following morning, I received this email from her:

happy birthday again! we're gonna go to bar this weekend, hey maybe i'll see you there! maybe before that, bye =]

Based on what you see here, does this girl really like me or am I hallucinating?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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619joe

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You havent read up on your reading.

Dilated Pupils can also appear in people in low lighting/darkness which is what Im sure is what happened.Dont judge it based from dilated pupils though you need to find more IOI's.

Either she likes you or shes being really friendly and is just naturally excited.

Basically she took the time to message you the following morning.What does that say?

She went out of her way instead of just going on with her morning JUST to message YOU.She could have done that later in the day or possibly the following day but she didnt cause she wants you to be thinking of her.
 
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good advice 619joe

vikman, she's digging you :)
stop having such little confidence in yourself, you're attracting a gorgeous girl. go with the flow
 
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Vikman said:
Sometimes when I talk to her, she sounds real excited. She's also way beautiful and I believe she can pretty much get any guy she wanted.

I was at the bar the other day for my 21st birthday. I bumped into her at the bar and then she sounded real excited/surprised when she saw me there. When we briefly talked, I noticed that her pupils dilated. Then, the following morning, I received this email from her:

happy birthday again! we're gonna go to bar this weekend, hey maybe i'll see you there! maybe before that, bye =]
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What did you answer to her email?
 
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