There this girl I always see it like when I check out I tell she loves it the attention but sometimes I check her out she really aloof so I back off and guess what she does she starts it all up again by looking in my direction it is really anoying when she is even with other people her and them look at my direction and thats not cool me being a private person, I am attracted to her but she seems imature and I don't want to be exposed by her what should I do/
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Is she a **** tease or is she interested
- Thread starter Gammergq
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Are you the forum's copy editor? Why not give advice on gammergq's situation?DonJuan11 said:
If she seems immature, I wouldn't go for it. Next her!
My modus operandi is going for older chicks since having a conversation is drop dead easy, and IOI's are far easier to read, and more accurate.:yes:
You can also end up banging one even if they're married. You may not find out until after you done it.
Hope this helps.
Bible_Belt
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is she interested
There's one way to find out...
There's one way to find out...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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And that's to make a move. In the case of this chick, she seems to be more annoying than Screech and Urkel. Here again, she's immature, so I wouldn't recommend it. There's plenty of fish in the sea.Bible_Belt said:
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Not enough information....have you talked to her?