There this girl I always see it like when I check out I tell she loves it the attention but sometimes I check her out she really aloof so I back off and guess what she does she starts it all up again by looking in my direction it is really anoying when she is even with other people her and them look at my direction and thats not cool me being a private person, I am attracted to her but she seems imature and I don't want to be exposed by her what should I do/
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is she a **** tease or is she interested
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Are you the forum's copy editor? Why not give advice on gammergq's situation?DonJuan11 said:
If she seems immature, I wouldn't go for it. Next her!
My modus operandi is going for older chicks since having a conversation is drop dead easy, and IOI's are far easier to read, and more accurate.:yes:
You can also end up banging one even if they're married. You may not find out until after you done it.
Hope this helps.
Bible_Belt
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is she interested
There's one way to find out...
There's one way to find out...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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And that's to make a move. In the case of this chick, she seems to be more annoying than Screech and Urkel. Here again, she's immature, so I wouldn't recommend it. There's plenty of fish in the sea.Bible_Belt said:
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Not enough information....have you talked to her?