"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is she a slut?

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Huffman said:
Then think about the people on this board, the ones that are successful - they have the same lack of morals (and sometimes disease? haha). Does it get to you?
a man doesn't have a vagina that can be streched.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SamTheHobit said:
a man doesn't have a vagina that can be streched.
What does it matter to you? It's not like you've ever seen one in person. You said yourself that you don't care if you die a virgin.
 

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SharinganUser said:
What does it matter to you? It's not like you've ever seen one in person. You said yourself that you don't care if you die a virgin.
That doesn't change the fact that sluts are disgusting.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
That doesn't change the fact that sluts are disgusting.
Were you touched by a priest when you were younger? That's the only reason I can think of that you would come on a site about meeting more women and spew all of your self-rightious religious crap.
 

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Danger said:
No, very different. Percentage is a ratio. Number is just a count. From your post it looks like you are defending a group simply because their numbers are smaller, when really it is the ratio that is a true measure.
Meh I disagree, I already stated the reasons, I see your point but I don't agree with them, its the same crappy argument that people make that black men go to jail when its been proven more are in college, etc.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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'Oh wow yov have to make it personal because you lack the intelligence to have a rational argument'

Im not spewing anything it's just an opinion.
 

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SharinganUser said:
Were you touched by a priest when you were younger? That's the only reason I can think of that you would come on a site about meeting more women and spew all of your self-rightious religious crap.
'Oh wow.. now you have to make it personal because you lack the intelligence to have a rational argument'

Im not spewing anything it's just an opinion.
 

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That was a pretty eye-opening list.

I can think of two relationships in where my ex's dressed more lavishly for events that didn't involve me. Hmm.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
'Oh wow.. now you have to make it personal because you lack the intelligence to have a rational argument'

Im not spewing anything it's just an opinion.

Having a rational conversation with you would be like having a rational conversation with a trained chimp. The only difference is that the chimp knows how to attract females.
 
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