"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is she a slut?

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Huffman said:
Then think about the people on this board, the ones that are successful - they have the same lack of morals (and sometimes disease? haha). Does it get to you?
a man doesn't have a vagina that can be streched.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SamTheHobit said:
a man doesn't have a vagina that can be streched.
What does it matter to you? It's not like you've ever seen one in person. You said yourself that you don't care if you die a virgin.
 

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SharinganUser said:
What does it matter to you? It's not like you've ever seen one in person. You said yourself that you don't care if you die a virgin.
That doesn't change the fact that sluts are disgusting.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
That doesn't change the fact that sluts are disgusting.
Were you touched by a priest when you were younger? That's the only reason I can think of that you would come on a site about meeting more women and spew all of your self-rightious religious crap.
 

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No, very different. Percentage is a ratio. Number is just a count. From your post it looks like you are defending a group simply because their numbers are smaller, when really it is the ratio that is a true measure.
Meh I disagree, I already stated the reasons, I see your point but I don't agree with them, its the same crappy argument that people make that black men go to jail when its been proven more are in college, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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'Oh wow yov have to make it personal because you lack the intelligence to have a rational argument'

Im not spewing anything it's just an opinion.
 

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SharinganUser said:
Were you touched by a priest when you were younger? That's the only reason I can think of that you would come on a site about meeting more women and spew all of your self-rightious religious crap.
'Oh wow.. now you have to make it personal because you lack the intelligence to have a rational argument'

Im not spewing anything it's just an opinion.
 

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That was a pretty eye-opening list.

I can think of two relationships in where my ex's dressed more lavishly for events that didn't involve me. Hmm.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
'Oh wow.. now you have to make it personal because you lack the intelligence to have a rational argument'

Im not spewing anything it's just an opinion.

Having a rational conversation with you would be like having a rational conversation with a trained chimp. The only difference is that the chimp knows how to attract females.
 
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