teacha
Senior Don Juan
its not really hard at all...
Just go for the ones that find you sexually attractive.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is sex thanks enough after a date?
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Just go for the ones that find you sexually attractive.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MountainSlide
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I don’t understand your inept question. I just pointed out the hypocrisy in that social standard. When girls offer to split the bill, it is usually a shyt test, and you have to say no or you fail. Also, fake manners.
Ive dated lots of girls that will legitimately go pay the bill behind my back, circumventing the social norm, and have sex with me after. But if someone pays for me I always say thank you. Unless their pieces of shyt and I consider the meal compensation for having to put up with them.
MountainSlide
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anyway. There’s something about this girl that’s just rubbing me the wrong way. I can’t put my finger on it. So I’m going to distance myself a bit.
EyeBRollin
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No, the vagina is not enough. This chick is basically a cheap hooker for you. Keep her as booty call only.
Only giving and grateful women can become the girlfriend. This girl is neither.
Only giving and grateful women can become the girlfriend. This girl is neither.
Bokanovsky
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She thinks that fvcking you is enough of a thanks. Honestly, if it doesn't cost you too much and it's not a serious/exlcusive relationship, I wouldn't be too bothered by it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.