She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Man, porsche's are cheap. You're talking a $700-$1000+ new car payment. Almost anybody could afford a porsche if they wanted to. Maybe if you're talking Ferrarri, then that is out of the reach of most people. Around $5k/mo.sparky0000 said:Few if any of you are getting Porsches. Especially if you are living in America. Most of you are getting Ford Pintos. Old ones that have been driven by 5 or 6 other dudes before you ever got behind the wheel. The odds of getting to drive a new "Porsche" in the USA is slim to none. You gotta go where "Porsches" are produced (I ain't talking about Germany), and where they are really cheap. Think about that for a second.
Paying cash for a new car is a horrible financial decision unless you plan to keep it for at least 3-5 years. People who could afford a six figure car, like myself, shouldn't be stupid enough to pay cash for it.backbreaker said:if you are paying 5k a month for a car, you out to be slapped. People who buy 100k cars BUY them outright.
that topic is getting WAY offhand
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Others have touched on this already, but here's my experience.ElStud said:Just wondering man, is sex really all that better than your right hand? I'm asking because lately I haven't gotten much satisfaction out of jacking it. Infact, it's starting to get to the point where I'm asking myself, "If this is the reward? Is it really that great?". I mean sure dude, getting it up and everything is great, but after that, you just don't feel any satisfaction. It's a feeling like "I did all that... for this?". I'm just really wondering, is sex that much better than your right hand?
I'm with you on that.STR8UP said:Great sex with a woman who you are physically and emotionally into is a wonderful thing.
Anything else isn't much better than the hand. And a lot more work too.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.