"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is sex or masturbation a good idea while being low on Testosterone?

mrgoodstuff

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Read the studies. They are not. I could give a fvck cause I'm on TRT, I can jack off til the cows come home and it will have no effect on my T levels.
your externally supplemented. your confidence and mood will be better with the real thing though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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your externally supplemented. your confidence and mood will be better with the real thing though.
Unfortunately as you get older you have a 0% chance of maintaining youthful levels, especially if your levels are already in the sh!tter(mine tested at 150)...just a fact of life.
 

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Unfortunately as you get older you have a 0% chance of maintaining youthful levels, especially if your levels are already in the sh!tter(mine tested at 150)...just a fact of life.
Hey if nothing you can do can get them out of the 150's you gotta supplement. I would have to think that maintaining an active life, having a full sex life, and a life where you have some control and relative success would be the best you can do for keeping your T levels up.
 
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