"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is Seattle rally that tough of a PU town?

MatureDJ

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http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/pacificnw/2005/0213/cover.html

I understand that a number of folks here are from Seattle (or at least the Pacific Northwest), and I'd like to get their impressions.

Interestingly, some of the easiest women I've ever known were from nearby Oregon. (This has also been corroborated by some acquaintances who were from Oregon.)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've lived in the Northwest my whole life, all three states, lived in Portland for a couple years. My takes:

1. Portland has the snarkiest/man-hatingest, pasty-white, goth, ugly women in the U.S., more than any metro area, and I've been so SoCal, Bay Area, Indianapolis, Minneapolis, NYC, Chicago, Austin, etc. It's easy pickup because the hairy arm-pitted women there are freeing themselves, by the end of the day, they still hate men.

2. Seattle is only a little better than Portland. Low quality of women, especially for relationships. Man-hating, just like P-town.
 
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