"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is Seattle rally that tough of a PU town?

MatureDJ

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http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/pacificnw/2005/0213/cover.html

I understand that a number of folks here are from Seattle (or at least the Pacific Northwest), and I'd like to get their impressions.

Interestingly, some of the easiest women I've ever known were from nearby Oregon. (This has also been corroborated by some acquaintances who were from Oregon.)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've lived in the Northwest my whole life, all three states, lived in Portland for a couple years. My takes:

1. Portland has the snarkiest/man-hatingest, pasty-white, goth, ugly women in the U.S., more than any metro area, and I've been so SoCal, Bay Area, Indianapolis, Minneapolis, NYC, Chicago, Austin, etc. It's easy pickup because the hairy arm-pitted women there are freeing themselves, by the end of the day, they still hate men.

2. Seattle is only a little better than Portland. Low quality of women, especially for relationships. Man-hating, just like P-town.
 
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