"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is reading books important?

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For me, what I have done is browsed through this forum along with the article section, and offcourse also looking at Bible.

And the approaches I am making has almost no added ingredient, I am just being myself, but rather then being only open to my close friends, now I talk to strangers as if I've known them for a long time, and just getting to know them again...

Is reading seduction books a must to get any results, will approaches just based on instinct and common interests work?

Do I need to change myself to accommodate ladies, or should I be assertive and good listener that I am, not to mention when I start talking its hard to keep my enthusiasm down...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All the information you need is on this site. I unfortunately have spent money on a couple of books that proved to be completely useless. The books on seduction or w/e are just written by people that want to scam you, don't know what their doing and/or have never gotten laid before.

If you want to improve your game, then flirt with the women over IM or atleast email. But if you want the best learning experience and some great stories then you have to go out into the field.
 

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if you want to read books that you will get something out of, read self-improvement books.

Mark Victor Hansen
Jack Canfield
Napoleon Hill
Dale Carnegie

Read Autobiographies as well

self-improvement books and (auto)biographies are the best to read. Business is good as well.

You got all the seduction material within the bible. I wouldn't pay for any of that other sh!t.

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So pimp its scary

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Think of this as a process, I've been through it, and anyone who learns has been through this too :

1 - realize how much you suck with women
2 - realize that this is a problem that can be fixed
3 - Learn ALL the tricks, techniques, etc.
4 - Go out and use all this stuff, getting results
5 - realize, hey, I don't really need all these trick, I can just be myself
6 - Forget most of the tricks and techniques (You'll probly keep some of the tricks, just because they wortk)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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