"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is reading books important?

Canadien

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For me, what I have done is browsed through this forum along with the article section, and offcourse also looking at Bible.

And the approaches I am making has almost no added ingredient, I am just being myself, but rather then being only open to my close friends, now I talk to strangers as if I've known them for a long time, and just getting to know them again...

Is reading seduction books a must to get any results, will approaches just based on instinct and common interests work?

Do I need to change myself to accommodate ladies, or should I be assertive and good listener that I am, not to mention when I start talking its hard to keep my enthusiasm down...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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All the information you need is on this site. I unfortunately have spent money on a couple of books that proved to be completely useless. The books on seduction or w/e are just written by people that want to scam you, don't know what their doing and/or have never gotten laid before.

If you want to improve your game, then flirt with the women over IM or atleast email. But if you want the best learning experience and some great stories then you have to go out into the field.
 

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if you want to read books that you will get something out of, read self-improvement books.

Mark Victor Hansen
Jack Canfield
Napoleon Hill
Dale Carnegie

Read Autobiographies as well

self-improvement books and (auto)biographies are the best to read. Business is good as well.

You got all the seduction material within the bible. I wouldn't pay for any of that other sh!t.

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double post
 

So pimp its scary

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Think of this as a process, I've been through it, and anyone who learns has been through this too :

1 - realize how much you suck with women
2 - realize that this is a problem that can be fixed
3 - Learn ALL the tricks, techniques, etc.
4 - Go out and use all this stuff, getting results
5 - realize, hey, I don't really need all these trick, I can just be myself
6 - Forget most of the tricks and techniques (You'll probly keep some of the tricks, just because they wortk)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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