Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

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Is rating women on the numeric scale a part of "rape culture"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this article - from everyone's favorite media source - about Trump's latest misogynist scandal, and the addition of this point got my attention.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/donald-trump-billy-bush-rape-culture_us_57f80a89e4b0e655eab4336c
Trump’s Latest Comments About Women Are Rape Culture In A Nutshell
“Grab them by the p***y. You can do anything.”
These comments are among the most lewd and repulsive of what the public has heard the Republican presidential candidate say about women. Americans are well aware that Trump has a history of misogyny, ranging from attacking the appearances of women he dislikes, to shaming a woman breastfeeding, to fat-shaming a beauty queen, to sexually harassing women who worked on “The Apprentice,” to rating women on a numerical scale.
OK, I can understand womyn getting mad at most of this, but also at the last one? Perhaps feminysts think that while they have everyone's attention, they can now try to shame men from objectively discerning a woman's physical desirability?

my opinion: :down:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Dares Win

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Im sure they have no problem in other kind of conversation regarding the d1ck size or hair density of the men hitting on them.

After all inches/cm and % are all numbers that objectify that marvellous creature called human even if such creature happens to miss b00bs.
 

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Im sure they have no problem in other kind of conversation regarding the d1ck size or hair density of the men hitting on them.

After all inches/cm and % are all numbers that objectify that marvellous creature called human even if such creature happens to miss b00bs.
It's all in the presentation. When a woman approves or disapproves she will talk about "her type", not "his d!ck was small".
 

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Rape culture? You mean the one that puts these people in jail and brands them as a sex offender the rest of their lives??
 

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It's just politics as usual. The Clintons are no stranger to sexual scandal either. Huffington Post has no interest in stopping rape, they just want to stop Trump.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rape culture does not exist, point me one larger group of people who think rape is ok and I'll change my mind.

And no, rating women is not a part of rape culture and has nothing to do with rape.

Feminists just stick the word "rape" on anything they don't like.
 
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El Payaso

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There's an app where women can rate men after a date...
 

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Yes, and let's also stop rating men by income and popularity while we're at it. :rolleyes:
 
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