Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is rating women on the numeric scale a part of "rape culture"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this article - from everyone's favorite media source - about Trump's latest misogynist scandal, and the addition of this point got my attention.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/donald-trump-billy-bush-rape-culture_us_57f80a89e4b0e655eab4336c
Trump’s Latest Comments About Women Are Rape Culture In A Nutshell
“Grab them by the p***y. You can do anything.”
These comments are among the most lewd and repulsive of what the public has heard the Republican presidential candidate say about women. Americans are well aware that Trump has a history of misogyny, ranging from attacking the appearances of women he dislikes, to shaming a woman breastfeeding, to fat-shaming a beauty queen, to sexually harassing women who worked on “The Apprentice,” to rating women on a numerical scale.
OK, I can understand womyn getting mad at most of this, but also at the last one? Perhaps feminysts think that while they have everyone's attention, they can now try to shame men from objectively discerning a woman's physical desirability?

my opinion: :down:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Who Dares Win

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Im sure they have no problem in other kind of conversation regarding the d1ck size or hair density of the men hitting on them.

After all inches/cm and % are all numbers that objectify that marvellous creature called human even if such creature happens to miss b00bs.
 

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Im sure they have no problem in other kind of conversation regarding the d1ck size or hair density of the men hitting on them.

After all inches/cm and % are all numbers that objectify that marvellous creature called human even if such creature happens to miss b00bs.
It's all in the presentation. When a woman approves or disapproves she will talk about "her type", not "his d!ck was small".
 

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Rape culture? You mean the one that puts these people in jail and brands them as a sex offender the rest of their lives??
 

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It's just politics as usual. The Clintons are no stranger to sexual scandal either. Huffington Post has no interest in stopping rape, they just want to stop Trump.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rape culture does not exist, point me one larger group of people who think rape is ok and I'll change my mind.

And no, rating women is not a part of rape culture and has nothing to do with rape.

Feminists just stick the word "rape" on anything they don't like.
 
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El Payaso

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There's an app where women can rate men after a date...
 

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Yes, and let's also stop rating men by income and popularity while we're at it. :rolleyes:
 
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