"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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is quiet/laid-back a bad thing?

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ok theres this girl who tells me that i'm quiet a lot. She tells me I'm laid back and that she's never heard me yell or get really mad before. I don't know whether to take this as a good or bad thing but I'm guessing maybe its not the aggressive dominant behavior that most girls would be attracted to. I do joke around a lot though with her and my other friends, then she tells me that i'm mean. I'm guessing she's joking here but I dunno if she's implying something or what....women are confusing....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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u can be laid back and not be shy at the same time, jus make sure she knows whos boss...
 
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You don't have to be aggressive to be dominant. I know plenty of people that I would consider the alpha in their group and they are completely laid back. Think of all the gangster movies... the aggressive guys may be the muscle, but the alpha.. the boss is always the slick laid-back guy. You're a DJ. That means that your laid-back attitude is yours and you don't give a damn what anyone else thinks. That's confidence with laid-back. Like Luke!! said make sure you have that certain look in your eye that they know you can open up a can of whoop-ass if they push too far.
 
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