"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is PUA TACTICS better than DJ TACTICS for learning?

Cod3r

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I'll put it like this...

I started in the field using canned lines and openers just to give me some confidence and avoid the "wat do i say" trap of the mind. I got good feedback but I couldn't close for crap, after alot of approaches naturally I just progressed into closing after not thinking about it...

My natural game can close just fine... Before I walked away from the game, I was using situational openers and direct game, but of course throwing in lines from canned material I read because it works... don't hate on it...

things like, "can you cook?" or "awww ur bad news, ur names heather uh oh !" or "wow u remind me of the 'view' u girls are talkers aren't u ?" or "wats ur sign?" ect....

These things are great fillers and they make conversation exciting, its not robotic as my natural personality more cleverly feeds off their answers and they can go anywhere from there... Just approach and u'll be fine


-Cod3r
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
DJ is for pvssies and PUA is for dweebs.
You clearly do not understand what DJism is all about. It's not who you are or what you become. It's the life you live. It's just a label we apply to a certain lifestyle. There are many, many examples of DJs outside this community who have never visited this website. Read my article in my signature for a glimpse of what makes DJs different.

As for PUA, I don't even know what that acronym means. I never cared. I was a member of this community long before any of this other crap was invented.

Call_Me_Daddy said:
What ever happened to being a REAL man? Like the Billions BEFORE you?
You're right. You don't need much to get laid. You don't need much to get a girlfriend. Hell, you don't need much to get married. You can just be who you were born, develop as your environment allows, and live life without socializing with other guys for advice on life, success, and relationships. You don't need to live anything more than a basic, unfulfilling life to live and be relatively happy.

But that's the bare minimum. Some people want more than that. I want more than that. What makes DJs different is that we strive to achieve success beyond all boundaries. The bare minimum does not satiate our thirst. We are not complacent.
 

kickureface

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damn and i thought self improvement was key and that i should throw out pua tactics! wtF??!
 

Reyaj

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Im going to finish the approaches! its one of my goals I just havent had time to go out do it.

I agree with everything Brutus said. I too am making my own book of articles I find interesting as there is so much conflicting information here.

I will finish those approaches, I promise!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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