"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is practice really the way to become good with picking up girls?

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
......I read all the posts and I still think being good looking is better than practice....just saying.
you can just say it all you want and you'd still be wrong.

if you take that premise, why are you here? the entire preimise of this site, is to take CONTROL over your dating life.

if you are relying on your looks and your looks alone to open doors, you are nothing more than a fish in the sea hoping that the current can take you by food. we are training guys to become sharks who can go whereever the **** they want to go and eat.

being a DJ is knowing, beyond a doubt i can go out this weekend and get a date beucase i have a skill set. that effects my overall confidence in everything i do with women including my wife. and she knows it too.. we don't argue much at all but when we do.. there's a line she won't cross and she and i both know why. i know she can get another man if she had to.. but i'd have no qualms at all about picking up dates. don't make me walk out the door beucase i'm not coming back.

versus being "good looking" and going out and hoping someone looks at you or hoping sojmeone sees you or what not. **** that. i'm good looking, very good looking but i still like to have control over my dating life.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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