"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is practice really the way to become good with picking up girls?

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
......I read all the posts and I still think being good looking is better than practice....just saying.
you can just say it all you want and you'd still be wrong.

if you take that premise, why are you here? the entire preimise of this site, is to take CONTROL over your dating life.

if you are relying on your looks and your looks alone to open doors, you are nothing more than a fish in the sea hoping that the current can take you by food. we are training guys to become sharks who can go whereever the **** they want to go and eat.

being a DJ is knowing, beyond a doubt i can go out this weekend and get a date beucase i have a skill set. that effects my overall confidence in everything i do with women including my wife. and she knows it too.. we don't argue much at all but when we do.. there's a line she won't cross and she and i both know why. i know she can get another man if she had to.. but i'd have no qualms at all about picking up dates. don't make me walk out the door beucase i'm not coming back.

versus being "good looking" and going out and hoping someone looks at you or hoping sojmeone sees you or what not. **** that. i'm good looking, very good looking but i still like to have control over my dating life.
 

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