Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is practice really the way to become good with picking up girls?

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
......I read all the posts and I still think being good looking is better than practice....just saying.
you can just say it all you want and you'd still be wrong.

if you take that premise, why are you here? the entire preimise of this site, is to take CONTROL over your dating life.

if you are relying on your looks and your looks alone to open doors, you are nothing more than a fish in the sea hoping that the current can take you by food. we are training guys to become sharks who can go whereever the **** they want to go and eat.

being a DJ is knowing, beyond a doubt i can go out this weekend and get a date beucase i have a skill set. that effects my overall confidence in everything i do with women including my wife. and she knows it too.. we don't argue much at all but when we do.. there's a line she won't cross and she and i both know why. i know she can get another man if she had to.. but i'd have no qualms at all about picking up dates. don't make me walk out the door beucase i'm not coming back.

versus being "good looking" and going out and hoping someone looks at you or hoping sojmeone sees you or what not. **** that. i'm good looking, very good looking but i still like to have control over my dating life.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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