“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is perception our only real limitation?

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By this, I mean, are we limited in thinking certain things are impossible simply because we perceive them as being impossible?

Do we see only what we want to of the world, and not what we can?

Whether it is actually true or not, here is an interesting story I read a couple years ago. When European explorers landed on islands full of natives who never witnessed boats or even had any clue as to what a boat was, it was said that the natives never actually knew how the explorers arrived. In other words, they did not know that the boats and the explorers were existent because their perception was turned off from them.

This leads me to wonder how many things we as humans are limited by simply because are minds are still closed.

Something to think about.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's certainly possible. If you think something is impossible then it might as well be since you're certainly not going to try it.

That being said, a realistic perception of one's own abilities would be very useful to have. When you first do something, and for many more times afterwards, it goes without saying that you're going to fail miserably at it, and I think that we all recognize this.

Still, I can understand how a person can turn "I can't do it" into "I'll never be able to do it" - a failure of imagination. But then imagination is easy - anybody can imagine anything - actually doing is a great deal more difficult.

It's like the chicken and the egg - which comes first: success or confidence?
 
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There is certainly a "realm of the impossible", but 95% of what most people would classify as such is nothing more than limitations they put on themselves.
 
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