"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is our society too focused on Safety?

Quiksilver

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Is it just me, or are we overly focused on Safety?

Everything that happens these days ... All the new laws that get created, all the research projects that get forwarded or scrapped, all the activities we promote, what children are allowed to do ...


Is this the product of feminization of society or is it something else?






Example:

I have family working in the space industry. He says if the Apollo program were to have occurred today, it would have been an utter failure.

Why?

Because back then, the risk of astronauts dying in missions was acceptable.

Today, if an astronaut dies, we ground the shuttle fleet for a decade and halt all manned research and exploration indefinitely.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bradd80 said:
Many safety precautions in force today are the result of expensive lawsuits or massive lobbying campaigns pressuring the government. If I was an owner of a company, I would not want to risk losing a lawsuit, and if I was a member of the legislature I would have no choice but to listen to the demands of my constituency, or risk losing my job/livelihood.

But your relative's comment is true - think of all the past advances in civilization that would never have come about if safety precautions were in place.

A lot of advances have come forth due to warfare.. but that's the trade off i guess, less war = fewer advances in civilization.
Hey now, I never mentioned anything regarding warfare. Theres nothing worse than violating the NAP.


Another example of what I was referencing in OP:

Transportation Security Administration ... Safety is their primary goal and they are willing to sacrifice everything to achieve it, up to and including cavity searches on children.



Are we so hell-bent on Safety that all other values are secondary?
 

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We are becoming a Nanny state. Soon you won't be able to do anything.... oh well. :crazy: :p
 

Who Dares Win

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This is the same problems which people who lift weights have with their family doctors, apparently "lifting weight is dangerous" became a mantra among mainstream doctors (except sport ones).

Living skinny or fat but "safe" is better than take some risks and see the beauty and strengh of which your body is capable.

This example explain with a detail, the general rule by which people and therefore our society live.

To outweight the potential risks and to completely ignore the potential gains.
This is actually how most women think (when they are not backed up from the gov/lawyer of course).

Just imagine a kid, he had on his side his mother trying to stop him and be safe while his father on the other to push him to take his risk as the only way to succeed.

Apparently now the feminine factor has much more weight, fear is getting stronger than ambition.

Of course the "sue this sue that culture" has a role, when a fvcker who burn his mouth by drinking hot cofee can sue the bar you realized the limit has been passed.

However I believe the problem is the feminization, even this "sue everybody" stuff is a conseguence of people not considered responsbile of their mistakes which is by default a femine thinking.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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