"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is our society too focused on Safety?

Quiksilver

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Is it just me, or are we overly focused on Safety?

Everything that happens these days ... All the new laws that get created, all the research projects that get forwarded or scrapped, all the activities we promote, what children are allowed to do ...


Is this the product of feminization of society or is it something else?






Example:

I have family working in the space industry. He says if the Apollo program were to have occurred today, it would have been an utter failure.

Why?

Because back then, the risk of astronauts dying in missions was acceptable.

Today, if an astronaut dies, we ground the shuttle fleet for a decade and halt all manned research and exploration indefinitely.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quiksilver

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bradd80 said:
Many safety precautions in force today are the result of expensive lawsuits or massive lobbying campaigns pressuring the government. If I was an owner of a company, I would not want to risk losing a lawsuit, and if I was a member of the legislature I would have no choice but to listen to the demands of my constituency, or risk losing my job/livelihood.

But your relative's comment is true - think of all the past advances in civilization that would never have come about if safety precautions were in place.

A lot of advances have come forth due to warfare.. but that's the trade off i guess, less war = fewer advances in civilization.
Hey now, I never mentioned anything regarding warfare. Theres nothing worse than violating the NAP.


Another example of what I was referencing in OP:

Transportation Security Administration ... Safety is their primary goal and they are willing to sacrifice everything to achieve it, up to and including cavity searches on children.



Are we so hell-bent on Safety that all other values are secondary?
 

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We are becoming a Nanny state. Soon you won't be able to do anything.... oh well. :crazy: :p
 

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This is the same problems which people who lift weights have with their family doctors, apparently "lifting weight is dangerous" became a mantra among mainstream doctors (except sport ones).

Living skinny or fat but "safe" is better than take some risks and see the beauty and strengh of which your body is capable.

This example explain with a detail, the general rule by which people and therefore our society live.

To outweight the potential risks and to completely ignore the potential gains.
This is actually how most women think (when they are not backed up from the gov/lawyer of course).

Just imagine a kid, he had on his side his mother trying to stop him and be safe while his father on the other to push him to take his risk as the only way to succeed.

Apparently now the feminine factor has much more weight, fear is getting stronger than ambition.

Of course the "sue this sue that culture" has a role, when a fvcker who burn his mouth by drinking hot cofee can sue the bar you realized the limit has been passed.

However I believe the problem is the feminization, even this "sue everybody" stuff is a conseguence of people not considered responsbile of their mistakes which is by default a femine thinking.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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