“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Is number closing on email acceptable?

Murph

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This girl didn't write back for a couple weeks ... just someone I met at a meeting for this journalism thing. We're from the same area ... so I wrote her a note saying who I was and all that. Then, like i said, she wrote back a while later ... saying all this stuff about school and thinking of people we both might know. Closing with:

"hmmm sorry i seriously cant think of people right now but good luck with ojr and maybe ill see you around sometime!"

Can I write back a couple days from now and get her digits/ask her to coffee? Or is email still too pvssy?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dapper Swindler

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I'm not sure I understand the situation. You only see this girl through e-mail and you don't know her number. Now you're asking if you should e-mail her again or call her. Well if you don't know her number then you can't call her. E-mail is the only choice you seem to have. But if you do write an e-mail, I think you should ask for her number. Then invite her for coffee over the phone instead of e-mail.
 

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of course a number close on email is good, if you feel you like the girl enough you should just do it.
good luck man
 

NoBull

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Forget about her, she already read the e-mail and ignored you.

You posted one sentense from your e-mail, and to be honest, it's lame.

"hmmm <<are you 13? hmmn what?>> sorry <<why are you apologizing?>>i seriously cant think of people right now <<your goal was to name everyone you both know, EVERYONE?>> but good luck with ojr and maybe ill see you around sometime!"

I mean that's just one sentense, I wonder what you said in the rest of the e-mail...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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