"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is number closing on email acceptable?

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Murph

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This girl didn't write back for a couple weeks ... just someone I met at a meeting for this journalism thing. We're from the same area ... so I wrote her a note saying who I was and all that. Then, like i said, she wrote back a while later ... saying all this stuff about school and thinking of people we both might know. Closing with:

"hmmm sorry i seriously cant think of people right now but good luck with ojr and maybe ill see you around sometime!"

Can I write back a couple days from now and get her digits/ask her to coffee? Or is email still too pvssy?
 

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Dapper Swindler

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I'm not sure I understand the situation. You only see this girl through e-mail and you don't know her number. Now you're asking if you should e-mail her again or call her. Well if you don't know her number then you can't call her. E-mail is the only choice you seem to have. But if you do write an e-mail, I think you should ask for her number. Then invite her for coffee over the phone instead of e-mail.
 
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of course a number close on email is good, if you feel you like the girl enough you should just do it.
good luck man
 
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Forget about her, she already read the e-mail and ignored you.

You posted one sentense from your e-mail, and to be honest, it's lame.

"hmmm <<are you 13? hmmn what?>> sorry <<why are you apologizing?>>i seriously cant think of people right now <<your goal was to name everyone you both know, EVERYONE?>> but good luck with ojr and maybe ill see you around sometime!"

I mean that's just one sentense, I wonder what you said in the rest of the e-mail...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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