"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is nofap essential

youngprodigy

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Been experimenting with it on and off for the past 2 years. I believe the benefits are probably different for everyone because I noticed a couple of things: (made it to over 100 days, starting casually ****ing after day 50 or so)
- Nofap makes me a lot hornier, making me come off strong - turn off for higher quality women
- When not on nofap, I'm more emotionless making it easier to display alpha characteristics
- Nofap did give more mental clarity and energy tho. Better workouts as well
- Skin is clearer while on nofap
- I'm less talkative on NoFap, but have less social anxiety if that makes sense

At this point I'm in a pickle of which route to go with. What's your guy's opinions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zekko

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I'm no expert on this subject by any means, but I think it's probably beneficial for most men. But I think everybody is different, and I've heard it doesn't really make any difference for some people.

For example, I know some guys who get a lot of casual sex with random girls. These guys also talked about rubbing one out six times a day. Some people just have very high sex drives. And some people have very little self control. When you combine those two factors, I think you get guys who have a lot of sex with girls but also fap a lot.
 

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If you feel like it is out of control, then do Nofap as an experiment. If you can not control it, you are in danger of sliding into one of the worst addictions known to modern man. Own it, go cold turkey, get your life back.

PS, why self-pleasure yourself and be a wanker when you can be a DJ?

PPS, Doing Nofap is a great way to gain resiliency and strength in your life. If you take DJ ideals seriously, then you want to have this part of your life sorted. Period!
 

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Its the stopping of the loss of zinc in the body that makes nofap so powerful. Each ejaculation can make you lose a few mg of zinc, that on top of an already deficient amount of zinc in the food supply.
I've been taking a zinc supplement for a few weeks/months and I definately feel similar to nofap.
Clear head, higher test levels, increased lifts, darker beard, no anxiety whatsoever, agressive, horny all the time.

Google Zinc and Testosterone.
 

ChristopherColumbus

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Its the stopping of the loss of zinc in the body that makes nofap so powerful. Each ejaculation can make you lose a few mg of zinc, that on top of an already deficient amount of zinc in the food supply.
I've been taking a zinc supplement for a few weeks/months and I definately feel similar to nofap.
Clear head, higher test levels, increased lifts, darker beard, no anxiety whatsoever.

Google Zinc and Testosterone.
This says nothing of the psychological havoc that excessive fapping might cause. There are plenty of horror stories out there.... just saying....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm 19 and my sex drive is high as balls. I also take zinc supplements so they make me even hornier. I broke my streak outta curiosity and I noticed that I'm more happier and people notice it when I end my streak lol. On Nofap I'm just so frustrated, horny and feel like Ima beat the soul outta anyone that gets in my way aha
 

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I have said it many times here and I'll keep on saying it. NoFap is good.
When in no fap :
People respect me more.
I have more power and energy
Perform better in the gym
I fck more women.
Not socially awkward
More calm , clear head , alpha
More serious and the words i spit can be counted in your hands.

When not on NoFap
The opposites of the above
More emotionally vulnerable
Rage
Can tell many good jokes
I speak a lot
I fck like 70% less women .

As you can see, NoFap has only positives and litteraly , i can't think something that i do better when i Fap. There still many more things that NoFap offer but i think i covered enough the subject.

NoFap for me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes, abusing chickens and monkeys, is animal cruelty.
 

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Fapping is kind of hard not to do in my current predicament since I'm currently at the stage where me and my target girl are masturbating for each other on cam.
 
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