Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is nofap essential

youngprodigy

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Been experimenting with it on and off for the past 2 years. I believe the benefits are probably different for everyone because I noticed a couple of things: (made it to over 100 days, starting casually ****ing after day 50 or so)
- Nofap makes me a lot hornier, making me come off strong - turn off for higher quality women
- When not on nofap, I'm more emotionless making it easier to display alpha characteristics
- Nofap did give more mental clarity and energy tho. Better workouts as well
- Skin is clearer while on nofap
- I'm less talkative on NoFap, but have less social anxiety if that makes sense

At this point I'm in a pickle of which route to go with. What's your guy's opinions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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zekko

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I'm no expert on this subject by any means, but I think it's probably beneficial for most men. But I think everybody is different, and I've heard it doesn't really make any difference for some people.

For example, I know some guys who get a lot of casual sex with random girls. These guys also talked about rubbing one out six times a day. Some people just have very high sex drives. And some people have very little self control. When you combine those two factors, I think you get guys who have a lot of sex with girls but also fap a lot.
 

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If you feel like it is out of control, then do Nofap as an experiment. If you can not control it, you are in danger of sliding into one of the worst addictions known to modern man. Own it, go cold turkey, get your life back.

PS, why self-pleasure yourself and be a wanker when you can be a DJ?

PPS, Doing Nofap is a great way to gain resiliency and strength in your life. If you take DJ ideals seriously, then you want to have this part of your life sorted. Period!
 

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Its the stopping of the loss of zinc in the body that makes nofap so powerful. Each ejaculation can make you lose a few mg of zinc, that on top of an already deficient amount of zinc in the food supply.
I've been taking a zinc supplement for a few weeks/months and I definately feel similar to nofap.
Clear head, higher test levels, increased lifts, darker beard, no anxiety whatsoever, agressive, horny all the time.

Google Zinc and Testosterone.
 

ChristopherColumbus

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Its the stopping of the loss of zinc in the body that makes nofap so powerful. Each ejaculation can make you lose a few mg of zinc, that on top of an already deficient amount of zinc in the food supply.
I've been taking a zinc supplement for a few weeks/months and I definately feel similar to nofap.
Clear head, higher test levels, increased lifts, darker beard, no anxiety whatsoever.

Google Zinc and Testosterone.
This says nothing of the psychological havoc that excessive fapping might cause. There are plenty of horror stories out there.... just saying....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm 19 and my sex drive is high as balls. I also take zinc supplements so they make me even hornier. I broke my streak outta curiosity and I noticed that I'm more happier and people notice it when I end my streak lol. On Nofap I'm just so frustrated, horny and feel like Ima beat the soul outta anyone that gets in my way aha
 

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I have said it many times here and I'll keep on saying it. NoFap is good.
When in no fap :
People respect me more.
I have more power and energy
Perform better in the gym
I fck more women.
Not socially awkward
More calm , clear head , alpha
More serious and the words i spit can be counted in your hands.

When not on NoFap
The opposites of the above
More emotionally vulnerable
Rage
Can tell many good jokes
I speak a lot
I fck like 70% less women .

As you can see, NoFap has only positives and litteraly , i can't think something that i do better when i Fap. There still many more things that NoFap offer but i think i covered enough the subject.

NoFap for me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes, abusing chickens and monkeys, is animal cruelty.
 

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Fapping is kind of hard not to do in my current predicament since I'm currently at the stage where me and my target girl are masturbating for each other on cam.
 
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