"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is my Prom Date Interested?

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Yeah dude, you got it in the bag, but unless you get her around you more soon, you're done. Call her and tell your you wanna get together, actions speak louder than words and she went to the prom with you, this could be salvageable.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What you mean "unless I get her around more soon, I am done?" Does this mean I should hold off? Yeah, I should of kissed her, but did not. I know, prly a minimal mistake I hope. But I did kino her, rubbed her back on the slow dances lightly, touched her legs by pointing out the nice jewelry on her dress. I was not afraid to touch her, but could not make that "eye contact" to show I wanted to kiss her? Yeah, I should prly call her. Any other comments on this situation?
 
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So what should I do about asking her to hang out? I mean, started very well at prom, then things got a little shaky but...I say we both had a good time. A lot of people got ditched, so if she didn't have a good time she would of did that. I'd love her to have some more fun with her-shes a verry fun person.
 
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