"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is my fear irrational?

TechnoScotch

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I have a female friend, that I met 5 - 6 years ago. Our interaction has always been very friendly and open.
Recently, I sent her a WhatsApp voice message explicitly expressing my desire to have sex with her. She was quite receptive and asked that we make it happen.

Here is the problem: She and I come from cultures/religions that have quite a bit of animosity and violence between them. There has never been between her and me on this basis though, and we talked about our religions.

And now I am afraid: what if her family finds out and decides to do something about it? What if she herself is targeting me, and bites of my **** or something?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It would be irrational here in Canada, sadly i dont think many ppl will be able to anwser this from similar or same culture stand point
 
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So in your mind she has been patiently waiting for 5 years to put her plan to bite your d!ck off into action? You're probably being a little irrational.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You expressed a desire for her. She reciprocates. Then you have misgivings about different religions.

This doesn’t seem to be a problem for her as she wants to know how you can make it happen.

Secret, taboo partner sex is pretty hot stuff. If you want her to feel some amazing passion generated by this situation you better jump on it. If not, why even bring it up?
 
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Cause I was thinking with my **** then.

And now paranoia took over.

But I see your point. Thanks
 
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TechnoScotch said:
Cause I was thinking with my **** then.

And now paranoia took over.

But I see your point. Thanks
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If you have those types of misgivings about it, there's probably a reason. Your gut is trying to tell you something, listen to it. That taboo sex stuff is going to be f*cking awesome when you are doing it. As long as you are good with whatever consequences that you know your religion, your family is going to put down on you for doing so when they find out? Then keep doing it until you get busted, then deal with the fallout. If the fallout is going to be nuclear? Perhaps you should listen to you gut then.
 
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Ever see that episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm where Larry David (who is Jewish) has sex with a Palestinian woman?
The dirty talk while they are doing it in the bed is pretty funny. Like "I am going to occupy you", "Fvck me like Israel fvcks my country", stuff like that.
The episode is from season 8 and is called Palestinian Chicken. Larry David is awesome.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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